Galatians 2:21 AMP
[21] I do not ignore or nullify the [gracious gift of the] grace of God [His amazing, unmerited favor], for if righteousness comes through [observing] the Law, then Christ died needlessly. [His suffering and death would have had no purpose whatsoever.]”
We do not live by the law, but the cross, instead. In other words, we do not look at how we are breaking the law, but that we fall in love with the cross. When you understand with your heart why Jesus has died on the cross, then you fall in love with your Savior. When you fall in love, you then seek not to hurt, fail or disappoint the one you love. Now you can experience the grace of God, which is forgiveness, power, and peace.