Ephesians 6:6 KJV
Not with eyeservice, as menpleasers; but as the servants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart
Having a servanthood heart is the door to your happiness. Jesus came to serve, not to be served. Loving, forgiving, forbearing, and patience is all part of serving our Lord and especially when no one sees or knows. When you serve the God that sees it all, then you will be blessed before all.