1 Peter‬ ‭3:4‬ ‭AMP‬‬

[4]but let it be [the inner beauty of] the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality and unfading charm of a gentle and peaceful spirit, [one that is calm and self-controlled, not overanxious, but serene and spiritually mature] which is very precious in the sight of God.

That is your true nature, male or female. It is one of the attributes of Christ. No matter what situation may arise, we arise higher: higher in faith, peace, confidence in our God, and power. It is this nature, I believe, that the Holy Spirit can abide, and where the spirit abides, there is the demonstration of the power of miracles. Begin today to master this mindset and living style; it comes with the mighty hand of God.